As always the me time (Coffee break) got me to think while listening to a song.
This is a song that talks about how much this person is obliged and has crazily fallen in love.
Everytime I hear this song I blush and guess what in my weird way I blush for myself, for being crazily in love with myself.
I would like to confess today I was an alcoholic for about 5 years and this December I would be sober for 4 years. π Tears of joy, strength and achievements are filled in my eyes as I type this with a broad smile on my face.
It is difficult to express how amazing I feel on my path of transformation.
I am frequently asked how too good to be true I am, how I could be without an ego, is it even possible to be kind to the unkind and forgive the unforgivable.
My answer to all the negative emotions is, Yes! I can be without them and yes it is possible. Difficult but not impossible.
May be after so much of pain, anguish, trials and all that I and many others have faced, I feel it’s time we decide to be happy come what may.
So before we expect let’s introspect and let’s be the person we would like others to be and see how beautiful this short life can be made.
One of my most important tool in making this journey possible and finally attain absolute nirvana, are you all who read, comment, challenge and critique.
You all and hoping many that I could convey my thoughts to, is my way of visualising and reassuring myself that I will get there some day and when I turn around who knows the whole world would be smiling back at me and at themselves.
I truly believe everything is possible as long as we start work within first π
Have a wonderful day you wonderful people reading this and some I hope to connect without they reading me π
I am glad that you are happy with yourself!
Its the most important step to achieve satisfaction…
π
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Thank you dear for making time to read and comment. May you be happy and content π have a lovely day full of smiles
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Happy to hear that you are enjoying what you are right now..and you are satisfied with the life after the great transformation in you..
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π thanks a bunch chithra I am yet I attain complete transformation but I somehow feel the destination isn’t too far π
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Yes it is not..when you realise what is inside you and your need for living, then the distance is not long..π
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happy you are happy…..cheers
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π m glad it makes you happy too have a lovely day
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Grateful that you are sober now. I was enslaved to drugs and alcohol for 27 years then at age 40 I was set free forever. I am now filled with purpose and praise. Here a couple links to my story.
Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jy20ELREO7Y
Link: https://bookgrabbr.com/books/43136-remember-the-prisoners
Link: https://www.amazon.com/Remember-Prisoners-Came-Captives-Free/dp/1512743437
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Wow! How amazing. I am so happy for you. I am proud of you π I’ll surely check the above out. Thank you for sharing π
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Great post. Always keep that courage. Trust yourself and always be satisfied and proud of yourself
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Thank you, I sure am going to do my best to keep this up always
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I know YOU will. It can be read in your writings, such willingness and determination. Be lucky.
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Thank you, you know in times I breakdown for a short while these thoughtful words I receive gives me the strength to keep moving on, when tears are flowing while I slip, these words of belief I receive keeps me going. It really means a lot to me. Thank you
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You’re welcome. I’m so glad my words could help you keep you going.
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So whatever happens transfer the money in your bank account to mine .. financial help is always welcome
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Lol!π
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You’re in London huh
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Oh no I used to live in London now m in Mumbai
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You were awake by 3π
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I will be there next week
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Ya I usually sleep around 3.30 4 π hey have a happy and journey in advance
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Yeah thanks will remember you didn’t invite me π
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Invite you ? Sorry dint get that
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Invite me for coffee π
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Hehehe you are most welcome dear I am always at barista on weekends post 9.30 am till about 11.30 or so malad minds pace plz do drop in. It would be nice to have a chat with you
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Place??
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Malad west mind space barista
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Ok
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That was 9.30 pm sorry
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Thank goodnessπ
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So? Now that I have invited you do I get to meet you this weekend π it would be nice hope to see you someday
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I’m there on 7th night and off to Goa that weekend .. so will be free on 15 th will keep you updatedπ
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Arnt u going o London next week
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I wish
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Congratulations on your sobriety. WHAT an accomplishment!
My personal belief is that none of us are truly free of ego-fueled judgments of various types, however subtle — on this plane of existence, anyway. The essential thing is to remain aware of them and not to source your words and actions from them.
In my many years on this earth, every time I believe I have beaten those demons back I remind myself that the thought itself is probably a manifestation of ego. Shortly following is usually a thought that stuns me, encouraging me to remember two of my core values: love and kindness.
xx,
mgh
(Madelyn Griffith-Haynie – ADDandSoMuchMore dot com)
– ADD Coach Training Field founder; ADD Coaching co-founder –
“It takes a village to transform a world!”
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I simply loved how you have expressed your thoughts thank you for commenting. I partly agree with you, some how my hopes are higher than reality. I wish to conquer complete riddance of negativity, while I may contradict saying it’s very difficult, I reckon higher the target closer you would get to it π just ensuring not being too harsh on not achieving complete heights I would like to believe I may get to it π
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Some of us need to shoot for the stars to hit the moon, while others find it more difficult to keep going when we don’t hit the target in our sites. Whatever works, right?
I, too, desire to be completely rid of negativity (in my own life and those of others), but I am contenting myself with the thought that, maybe, that’s not the bulls-eye. Awareness keeps me on empathy’s edge. π
xx,
mgh
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I like the way you think π
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Thanks. I suspect we are of like minds about many things. The important thing is that we DO think, right?
xx,
mgh
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Hehe we do think alike just the ways may differ time to time π the ultimate goal is to avoid possible damage and be as composed and peaceful as possible. And yes we do think. For me today somehow is less of a thinking day thou π
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Lovely thoughts and reflections!!
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Thank you for your comment π have a wonderful day
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Thank you for sharing this milestone. Congratulations!
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Thank you π i hope to continue and et better, have a wonderful day
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This is so awesome! You should be so proud of yourself. You have done a great thing and have reached a huge milestone in your life. Big shout out to yourself! π
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Hey thank you dear. I am a little self critical but I am learning to be proud of my self. I have started loving and respect myself a lot more than before. But being proud may take some time π it’s an amazing feeling though when someone feels proud of me. I am truly grateful to the followers as they are very kind to say that. Which brings me I thank you too. Truly greatful to you for your kind words. π Have a wonderful day and as I always say keep smiling π
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You’re awesome! Thank you for the reply. I really hope your future is bright π Keep up the hard work!!
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Hey that is so sweet of you to say π I hope the same for you and everyone π have a happy day dear
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